Was I mean to my old friend?

My question to you is do you have so many friends you just don't have the time for another? She may drink because she thinks it's normal. Invite her to the mall, bowling, places that don't involve booze. After you two talk and still no connection then slowly distance yourself from her. The best friendships start with honesty.Don't avoid this girl because you haven't showered or for any other excuse she may turn out to be a life long friend. I made friends with a girl in high school she was different and sometimes weird but I gave her a chance and even though she lives 100 miles away we remained friends for 34 years. When my mom passed she was right there to hold my hand.Think of friend kinda like shoes each pair is different some fit comfortable some may hurt your feel but you keep them and love them all.